Completly overwhelmed.. Help??

Have your fiance deal with his side of the family. I love my future inlaws and i still didn't handle the money issues with them. Also if you don't let them contribute it will just be one more reason they dislike you. In addition they will not have any idea where the money they gave went. Just accept the money gratfully and be the bigger person. Some people are just rude and have no cl. DON'T let them ruin yours and his special day. feel free to email me if you need anymore help